ALIENS&TOFU

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Friends are usually in your life (based on my experience) to knock your head off to let you realize things aren’t going right anymore. Whether you’re already being taken advantage on because only them have the legal right to do that to you or you are about to be suicidal about the unfortunate things happening in your life.

I’m not the smartest person when it comes to making decisions in life often times I regret what I have said and done but because I had the opportunity to be surrounded by well- rounded people ( and by well- rounded, It means they know the right time and place where to show insanity: WHEN THE BOSS IS NOT AROUND) I have learned a lot.

Wisdom : a wise attitude, belief, or course of action

           : a body of facts learned by study or experience 

Wisdom, your practicality in life if you’d asked me.

The next words that you are going to be reading doesn’t mean that I have already fully applied it in my life; more likely I’m writing it to say it to my face.

When your head already tells you that you have lost your respect along the way and that you need to move on because you are not being treated right anymore. You freaking have to act on it. 

Or if you’re seeing that it keeps on happening and happening again you have to realize that it’s not healthy anymore.

When making decisions in life, try not to only use your head because often times (HARD TO ACCEPT) it goes back to the same reason why you have to say these things to yourself over and over again.

BECAUSE IT IS NOT HEALTHY ANYMORE - physically emotionally socially mentally spiritually

I have no fears now to let go of something that is killing me slowly.

It’s gonna hurt to let go but the better things will soon show if you’ll just be strong.

 DO NOT BE AFRAID TO LET GO WHEN YOUR FRIENDS HAVE BEEN TELLING YOU THE RIGHT THING TO DO AND YOU ALREADY KNOW IT IN YOUR HEAD YET TO LET YOUR EMOTIONS MIX UP WITH IT. 

YOUR FRIENDS CAN ONLY DO SO MUCH FOR YOU… as my Coach says.

So stop complaining and whining to your friends over and over again if you’re not going to listen to the right thing to do. You are still in that scene/phase/stage because you chose that. You wanted that at the back of your head even though it’s hurting you so much.

So if you would ask me what WISDOM means? It’s learning from your mistakes by yourself and remembering how to not be in that specific situation again.